Learning to Love the Waves

My recent move had upset nearly everything about life as I knew it. When I saw the surfers gracefully gliding across the ocean, it seemed like the exact opposite of the flailing and near drowning that I was experiencing in my new job, new house, new community, and new stage in life and parenting.

Lost at Sea.

Its been months and my boat has never looked better from the outside. I have scrubbed the decks, polished the brass, even ironed the flag, and then done it all over again. Day upon day, I complete the routine. Scrub, polish, iron. Scrub, polish, iron. I’m not sure why, as

Almost a ‘Do It Yourself’ Divorce

As a divorce attorney, I understand that the cost of a divorce can often be expensive. However, if someone cannot afford the full services of a divorce lawyer, there is

Ways To Cut Legal Fees During Divorce

Divorce or dissolution of marriage can be an expensive process. The emotional, familial and psychological impacts are hard enough to endure and the financial burden can make the aftermath quite daunting. It is necessary for anyone to look for ways to cut legal fees in a divorce. In worst cases,

Should We Stay Together for the Kids or Divorce?

This is an age-old question without a clear cut answer. The truth is that all marriages are different. So you need to find out whether the kids would actually be better off living in a home where mum and dad are in constant conflict or where they are happy but

How a Life Coach Saved My Sanity

Sometimes when I look back on my marriage, I wish my husband had been cheating on me instead of cheating on me. That statement can be a little confusing… let

How To Tell Your Children About Divorce.

Divorce can be a traumatic experience for your children. No matter how old they are, the divorce will be hard for them to understand and eventually to accept. Some children in fact harbor hopes that their parents will get back together even after several years of living apart. Many children

The Secrets To Moving On

We all have been at a place where we feel paralyzed. We can’t move. We hyperventilate and feel like we are going to faint. Losing confidence is part of life and if you have not you might be a liar or were weaned on some magic medication. There seems to