Enforcing Parenting Plans After Divorce
One of the hardest things that you can go through involves custody issues related to divorce. Divorce can be difficult on all parties involved, but especially the children that are left with a broken home. Co-parenting is something that needs to be learned once the divorce is final. You may no longer be in a relationship with one another, but you still have children that need both parents. This means that developing a parenting plan is critical. A parenting plan will include many things from specific schedules to how you will treat each other during drop offs. Enforcing the parenting plan can be made simpler if you follow a few steps.
Here are some of the best ways to make sure that the parenting plan is enforced:
The first thing that parents need to remember is that respect is key to effective co-parenting. You may no longer be in love with the other person, but you do need to have respect for them. As a parent, you need to respect your child and the relationship that your child has with them. It is possible to be cordial and respectful without necessarily liking the other person. There may be some hard feelings from the divorce, but they should be put to the side. During your interactions with the other parent, you should always be respectful and cordial. If you have respect, following the parenting plans will be easy.
Children Come First
If you both agree early on that the needs of the child come first, there should never be any major issues with the parenting plan. It is easy to come to agreement and find a compromise if you are both dedicated to making the needs of the children the ultimate priority. It is not always easy to put your own needs to the side, but this is what needs to be done when you are a parent. The lives of your children will go on beyond the divorce and they need a relationship with both parents. If you stay determined to put the needs of the children first, there should be no major issues with the parenting plan that can’t be worked out.
Time and Style
Both parents might not have the same amount of time with the child or the exact same parenting style, but it is important that both respect the time and parenting style of the other parent. You should never look to interfere with the agreement in any way if it is possible to avoid interference.
In the meantime here are a few funny items we think are great to help calm the choppy parenting waters..
What if Darth Vader took an active role in raising his son? What if “Luke, I am your father” was just a stern admonishment from an annoyed dad? In this hilarious and sweet comic reimagining, Darth Vader is a dad like any other—except with all the baggage of being the Dark Lord of the Sith. Celebrated artist Jeffrey Brown’s delightful illustrations give classic Star Wars® moments a fresh twist, presenting the trials and joys of parenting through the lens of a galaxy far, far away. Life lessons include lightsaber batting practice, using the Force to raid the cookie jar, Take Your Child to Work Day on the Death Star (“Er, he looks just like you, Lord Vader!”), and the special bond shared between any father and son.
Based on Norine Dworkin-McDaniel and Jessica Ziegler’s popular illustrated humor blog, Science of Parenthood: Thoroughly Unscientific Explanations for Utterly Baffling Parenting Situations takes the duo’s mix of high-brow science and low-brow humor to a whole new level. Using their trademark brand of quirky, witty humor, and bolstered by their signature cartoons, Dworkin-McDaniel and Ziegler dig deep into the core sciences―biology, chemistry, physics and mathematics―to help moms and dads everywhere solve for “y.” As in, “Y” is my child doing that . . . that . . . THING? And please, dear lord, is there a way to make them stop!? Anyone who’s ever wondered why the kid who plays Minecraft for hours can’t sit still for ten damn minutes to finish a math worksheet; who’s marveled at how their toddler always picks the most inopportune moment to poop; or who’s despaired of ever showering, sleeping, or finding a moment’s peace again will find this book a hilarious, enlightening, and relatable read.
If you’re a good parent, you probably drive yourself batshit with worry. This book is for you. Based on his viral blog post and addressing concerns from “my baby won’t poop” to “my boy likes girl toys” to “everything costs too much,” David Vienna’s wise and funny parenting advice will amuse and inform and remind you that (almost) nothing is worth freaking out about.
Includes advice from actual experts!
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8 volume set–96 different cards in total
Each volume contains 12 cards–10 with different messages on the front and 2 blanks so you can write your own message
All cards have a unique, silly joke or a fun fact on the back (no repeats!)
Credit-card size cases fit perfectly in a purse or pocket
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