What Should I Know About Social Media During a Divorce?

What Should I Know About Social Media During a Divorce?

In today’s world, we are all connected over the Internet. We text more than we call, we email more than we send letters, and we post about our lives on social media platforms like Facebook and Twitter. As innocuous as these communications and public posts may seem, they can become relevant during a divorce. Because so much of a person’s life is now online, these communications have become common evidence in court. People considering or going through a divorce need to understand how social media can affect their situation and how they should handle online content moving forward. If you have questions about your online content, call me today at (312) 621-5234.

Illinois Law Regarding Social Media & Electronic Evidence 

Email, text messages, and social media posts are generally admissible evidence in court. You have to remember that anything you text, email, message, post, or tweet to another person could come back to haunt you in court. Your spouse can have these documents subpoenaed and used during settlement negotiations or evidence in court regarding your finances, an affair, or your relationship with the children. On the other side of the situation, you can use your spouse’s electronic and online activity to your advantage if he or she is less careful.

What social media platforms count? All of them, including Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter, Instagram, YouTube, and Reddit.

The barriers to getting this type of content into evidence are the same as they are for any other content. Attorneys must follow the Illinois Rules of Evidence. The documents must be relevant, authenticated, and not hearsay.

Rise in Electronic Data and Social Media Evidence in Divorce 

Family and divorce attorneys across the U.S. will agree that there has been a drastic increase in the use of text messages, emails, and social media content as evidence during divorces. A survey by the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers found 92 percent of the country’s top divorce attorneys saw an increase in the number of cases using smartphone data or content as evidence in the past 3 years. Ninety-four percent saw an increase in text messages being used in court within the past 3 years. Text messages were the most common evidence, but these attorneys also saw emails, phone numbers, call histories, Internet search histories, and GPS coordinates admitted.

Consider Pausing Social Media Use 

If you are generally active on social media, the safest route may be to suspend use of your accounts during your separation and divorce. If your Facebook, Twitter or other platforms are not active, you cannot be tempted to vent online. This may mean actually suspending the account so it is offline or simply not posting on the account.

If you are someone who relies on social media accounts to build a personal brand or business, pausing them for months or longer isn’t an option. If you choose to keep some or all of your online platforms, be extremely careful about what you post and who you friend or follow.

Call For Help Today 

Do not make the mistake of thinking it will not happen to you – be careful with your online and electronic communications immediately when you separate or start considering a divorce. If you are not sure about your rights regarding your texts, emails, or social media content, call me at (312) 621-5234 or use the online contact form to schedule an appointment. As an experienced Chicago divorce attorney, I can explain how electronic communications and social media are commonly used during divorces, review your online content with you, and advise you on how to handle texting, emailing, and posting online moving forward.

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